Originally Posted by
Dragon Warrior
Water Dragon,
I dont see how knifefighter has "hurt the sport" of bjj, or gave a negative impression of me by his statements on this thread. When we are "testing" each other in training, it is 95% of the time, a positive thing.
Also, if I meet a person or martial artist who claims to have trained in some kind of grappling I always invite them to my class (to "test" them). Usually my white belts control them and tap them out over and over again. They either say (as I did), "**** I've been training for years and I am getting my ass kicked by white belts. I have to learn this stuff." Or they never come back either because their heads are to big to put a white belt on and get their asses kicked for a few months, or some other lame reason.
I guess we just look at things a little differently. I don't understand the mind set of inviting people to your class to 'test' them. It almost sounds like you're motivation is to teach these guys a lesson. I may be wrong, but that's the impression it gives me.
Why not just invite these people to train? If they're the type your talking about, The end result's gonna be the same. I'm a 3 year white belt myself, so I'm one of these guys you're talking about. If I roll with a new guy to the gym, I'm gonna be cautious, since I don't know him, but I'm also not gonna go after him. I'm gonna work hard on my position until I figure him out, then I'll play the way he wants to play. I'm not gonna 'test' him and see how many times I can sub the guy hust to prove a point. It's not going to do anything to help me improve, and it's more likely to chase away a potential training partner (or for you a potential student) than to prove any point. Egos get crushed on the mat regardelss, it's the nature of Jujutsu.
My beef with Dale, if you could call it a beef I don't think it is, is more with the way he represents himself in general. My understanding is the man has skills. I could learn a lot from the guy I bet. But I wouldn't train with him simply because I don't want to be around that attitude. A lot of people here have no exposure to BJJ except for what they see here. What do you think their impression of people who train BJJ is? How many people have lurked on these forums, read these threads and walked away thinking, "Geez, those BJJ guys are jerks. I don't wanna train with them." A lot I bet. And no, it's not just KF. I'm kinda trying to make a point with everyone here.
Sorry Dale, I'm not trying to pick on you or disrespect you. I'm focusing on one characteristic here, not you. I just want that to be known. And no disrespect to you either, Dragon Warrior. I'm definately NOT trying to tell you what you should do in your classes.
I am saying think about how you act because you represent more than just yourself if you like it or not. That's just how it is. Not just with BJJ, but with everything. You always represent everything you are associated with.
I know BJJ has a tradition of calling people out and showing what they do. But BJJ is not an unknown art trying to prove itself. It's already proven itself and earned it's respect. That can't be taken away. Now we need to grow the art and the sport, and that needs a different mindset.
Again, these are just my personal opinions. I have the right to voice my opinion and you have the right to disagree with it.
OK, I'm done waxing philosophical now. Back to one liners for a bit.
I have no idea what WD is talking about.--Royal Dragon