I have been talking with a good friend about the relationship of male sifus (of which I aspire to become) and their female students.
In general, I take an ascetic approach to students because of the sifu-student thing. I've vowed to never get romantically involved with a student.
I also wonder all the time about former students, whether it's "OK" to date them. It's not that I am or intend to right now, but maybe one day I might.
Dating students is strongly discouraged at the university where I'm a graduate teaching assistant.
What is your take on this?